Michael and Ashlee Cramer have a unique mother-son relationship. They share a podcast about their cancer journey. They have a website and a YouTube channel, and they even do rap songs about their hospital experiences together. But let’s go back. Ashlee was a dancer on tour in France when she met her future French husband Patrice Cramer. Life was good. But in 2014, it was the first time their world was turned upside down due to a cancer diagnosis. Patrice, a strong, healthy, non-drinker, non-smoker, and vegetarian with a weakness for French bread and cheese, was diagnosed with Large B-cell lymphoma. It is a quote for “treatable” cancer, but chemo was too much for him, and 17 months after diagnosis, on May 12, 2016, Patrice died. It was a devastating shock, but it brought the tight family, now of 4, even closer. When Michael first felt tired in 2020, no one had imagined cancer. He was young, healthy, and an athlete. At first they thought maybe he was anemic. Watch this video for a firsthand account of an unthinkably profound and brave journey from both perspectives. Find out from real patients what life with chronic disease feels like. The invisible pain, the insurance battles, and the hidden full-time job “being sick” entails can feel like too much at times, and it is a weight you shouldn’t have to carry alone. It is so important that patients with rare and chronic diseases are heard.

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